My Beloved...
You have not come to this magnificent space-travelling piece of rock called planet Earth to please others…
Or to live as a mere shadow version of your spectacular self.
There is a different way...
Breaking the Good Girl Spell
I can’t tell you how often I talk to women who tell me things like:
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I’ve been told I’m "too sensitive" and I'm worried that if I let out all the emotions inside me, they might never stop!
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I’m afraid to ask for what I need and desire, both in and out of the bedroom, because I’m scared of being seen as needy or pushy.
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I wear the badge of being an Independent Woman with pride, yet feel exhausted, resentful, and tired of handling everything on my own.
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I long to feel powerful in relationships so I can deeply love and be loved…
I’m so tired of constantly pleasing and appeasing others at the expense of my own well-being, health, and happiness.
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I feel trapped in cycles of self-abandonment which leave me feeling suffocated and exhausted.
I feel like I might need a miracle to break out of this rut!
Can you relate?
Look, I really get it…
We've all heard the unspoken narrative that nice women nurture and care for others…
That they make others feel special and that they should be satisfied with that role…
You learned how important all that was and you did it effortlessly using your magical spidey senses – knowing exactly what they needed even before they did.
You were taught well...
You became the best cheerleader… encouraging, open, and kind!
What a gift you have… “isn’t she such a good girl” they said.
Making others feel amazing became your trademark.
Part of your self-expression.
Living from one hunch to another.
Sensing, attuned, and deeply caring.
I lived that way for a LONG time too.
But the question is…
The turned on, sensual, dancing, singing, playful wild YOU?
Full of desires and a zest for life?
No matter how much abuse you’ve suffered, how broken, unlovable, alone you feel-
I am here to tell you it doesn’t have to be this way for you…
Breaking The Good Girl Spell was designed for you.
In this 6-part series, I will help you go from Good Girl to awakening your inner Goddess.
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Breaking the Good Girl Spell
Hi! I am Manjit-
I was a Gold Star kinda Good Girl- until the wild untamed primal goddess inside me woke up...
This is my Good Girl story.
Growing up, I was a master at taming my dad's rage and tending to my mother's needs.
A constant balancing act between trying to prevent the outbreaks of passive-aggressive behaviour and roaring arguments.
I survived a mother who is a queen of emotional blackmail and gaslighting to get her own way.
I loved my siblings with all my heart – pouring my energy into their safety, needs, and doing my best to protect their innocence.
Years of hypervigilance left me riddled with anxiety from trying to live up to the ridiculous expectations… I became the ‘good’ girl of magnitude.
Tiptoeing through life – hiding my magnificence behind care-taking roles.
I was good at care-taking and found it gave me purpose and joy.
I became comfortable in this role.
I learned that love came with criteria and lots of rules – so it was natural that I had a string of bad relationships and an empty bank account, low energy, and basically zero inspiration, and life force.
This good girl became a good wife, good teacher, good friend, good neighbour, good daughter until the goddess inside me woke up.
The goddess had zero desire to be controlled by anyone's standards and her life was about seeking pleasure.
Living her wildest dreams.
She wanted passion, freedom, world domination, to scream, howl, and burn anyone who dared tame her.
At first, I tried to make her go away.
To ignore this volcano inside me.
But then I made a declaration and pledge to the universe that I was willing to do and be WHATEVER it took to fall ridiculously in love with myself and my life.
With a warrior queen attitude of fortitude, I surrendered to healing the aspects of me most in judgment and shame, and so began my journey into sexual empowerment…back to my goddess nature.
Day after day, I micro-dosed on pleasure and goodness while gently releasing trauma and awakening my true essence.
I received guidance and support from potent femme high priestesses – because let's face it – detoxing patriarchy from our bodies and systems is going to take a village or two!!
I learned to accept and love the darkest, ugliest, evil parts of me.
I rewired my nervous system to relax into love– with the power of pleasure!
I became devoted to sharing this work with other women.
I want this and more for you too!
Breaking the Good Girl Spell includes:
6 VIDEO trainings
Weekly homework and practice audios
Community inside the FB group to share breakthroughs and challenges with a community of like-minded women
MODULES
Part 1- Understanding the Good Girl Origin Story
Part 2- Healing the Good Girl’s Core Wound of Unworthiness
Part 3 - Recognising the Good Girl Archetypes
Part 4- Rewiring the Good Girl for Thriving
Part 5- Returning Home to Your True Goddess Nature
Part 6- Living as the Goddess
Inside Breaking the Good Girl Spell, you will learn tools and potent practices that allow you to:
THIS is how you begin to awaken your vibrant aliveness so that you can…
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Feel deeply and profoundly creative
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Tap into the infinite pleasure in your body
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Feel sexier and way more confident in your body
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Move through life wild-hearted and free
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Experience the pure power of your sexual energy
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Embody your most magnetic, alive, sensual self
Taste divine magic coursing through your veins
Testimonials
Alexandra Roeth
I’d worked with many coaches, healers and in many modalities- the thing that had me say yes and work with Manjit was her incredible kind compassionate way of never forcing, rushing or judging me and incredibly gifted with energy and healing.
Coaching with her is medicine for my soul.
I was really lost and grieving after my dad had passed. I rarely slept, had digestive issues, anxiety, full of body issues and felt deeply alone.
As we moved through the layers of trauma and old heartbreaks I started to feel different.
Slowly but surely my life force returned.
Maniit met me at my darkest time and helped me feel confident to create my life as an empowered queen.
Dalbir Chana
I was so happy to get in touch with Manjit Khalsa .
The laughter, the joy, the vulnerability, the kindness, the choices beyond the crazy... I wonder what magic is possible now?? WOW!!!
Manjit , who not only created magic with me, she did it with ease & laughter and opened doors for greater to show up in my life. How the heck did I get so Lucky??
Julia Wolfram
Your presence is magical as I could feel you being with me throughout the entire process. I felt held by you and nothing could harm me.
Your intuition is the biggest cornerstone as I felt like everything you did just hit.
The way you brought the pussy connection in right at the beginning flashed me, but it was so matching. And it actually worked, like you pressed a button!
I loved the combination of the breathwork with the VITA content.
You helped me discover so much, like no one before did!
Meet Manjit
I’m Manjit… I am a teacher, a healer, a guide, but mostly I am a woman who, despite the odds, learned to overcome my shadows of shame, guilt, self-loathing, and deeply and profoundly fell in love with my sexuality and my life.
I felt like an orphan for a long time. No matter how many workshops I took, the deep ocean of sadness that I felt didn’t change. I tried to fix, heal, clear, and override all the self-hate, guilt, and shame I carried from ending my marriage and the cultural shame bestowed upon my family.
Years of entangled and unhealthy dynamics and power play with my mother, I was never totally sure of myself and who I was. I learned that love came with criteria and lots of rules – so it was natural that I had a string of bad relationships and an empty bank account, energy, inspiration, and life force from funding loser boys.
Naturally, I found it hard to stand up to people who were unkind, racist, abusive, and treated me like a commodity. It didn’t feel good, and I didn’t know how to change it – but at least I had friends…
I had so much self-judgment, self-hatred, and layers of guilt and shame that no wonder I lived in my head or completely checked out. My numbing drug of meditating, working hard, creating a business, attending personal growth workshops, and helping friends is culturally appropriate and even encouraged, so it was easy to slowly disconnect and look fabulous and happy!
For a while, it was a sanctuary. I had shiny tools to maintain and manage all the pain, anxiety, and heartache by slapping a coat of bright light all over it. I’d learned to avoid my needs, my feelings, and emotions and became a rockstar at spiritually bypassing.
No amount of meditating or white light helped – believe me, I tried.
Abuse isn’t a one-off incident. Just look at how society treats women – we get shown how to treat ourselves over a lifetime.
The media, stories, Disney, magazines, and how our mothers related to us is how we learned to ‘fit in’, ‘smile’, and be ‘a good girl’.
This was to our detriment and destruction. Now add decades of intergenerational trauma, patterning, projections, lies, judgments, and disempowerment.
Is it any wonder we don’t know how to love ourselves? Put up with crappy relationships? We stay and think there must be something inherently wrong with us. Your gifts, your magic, and your big beautiful heart deserve more than that… you know it and I know it.
So if you’re willing to choose more and you’re ready to create a life that you fall deeply and ridiculously in love with...
Join me as we uncover the truth about sexual shame and learn how to cultivate a healthy, shame-free relationship with your sexuality.
You deserve to experience pleasure, intimacy, and fulfillment in your sex life, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.